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Welcome to my sexuality page!
If you're looking for a WWW porn site, keep on surfin'. I don't particularly want to spend lots of money subsidizing lurkers who're downloading gigabytes of porn from my pages. Of course, most people aren't into the sorts of things I find exciting....
What's on this page:
After a few years, I knew enough to start answering other peoples' questions on alt.sex.bondage. And by the summer of 1991, I'd been doing it a lot. So, little knowing what I was getting into, I put together a post with a few simple Q&A's. And thus was born
Over the ensuing three years it grew to its current length of about thirty pages. I've gotten hundreds of pieces of email from all over the world. Most thank me for writing it. Some testify to its potential power to juice up sex lives, some tell me how it's eased worries or misconceptions they've had for years, and some request permission (almost always granted, but only if you ask!) to distribute it via other BBSes or newsletters. I am quite proud of the impact it's had on the world.
The FAQ's taken on a life of its own; searching for "bondage" via the InfoSeek server pulled up several online copies of it. It is probably what I'm best known for on the net at the moment.
The alt.sex.bondage newsgroup is now departed, but the soc.subculture.bondage-bdsm newsgroup lives on. Check out my FAQ for it at
http://www.unrealities.com/adult/ssbb/faq.htmThanks to everyone for all the support and encouragement you've sent over the years.
In recent years things have been pretty quiet on the press coverage front. I guess people are getting used to the fact that you can find pretty much anything on the Net.

Me and my delightful friend Lady Serena, during the Folsom Street
Fair in 1994. Charles Haynes
is around here somewhere but not pictured.
A gentleman in a dandy rubber suit, at the Folsom St. Fair in 1993.
Latex is one of my favorite kinks, truth be told, especially with
bondage. I'd be quite happy to be in this guy's shoes. (Excuse me--his
boots .)
My friend Willow, dancing with joy underneath a rainbow, on Pride
Day 1991. This was especially happy because we had spent the whole day
watching the Gay Pride Parade, and there had been rainbows adorning
everything within three blocks of Market Street.
A very nice corset worn by someone at another Folsom Street Fair in
1992 or so.
My glamorous friend Mistress Sage, at Pride Day 1998, having a damn
fine afternoon.
Folsom Street Fair 1999! I'm next to Mistress Sage, and the
rest of the troublemakers pictured are a bunch of common friends.
What a party! I wish every Folsom Street was like that one...
yow!!!!! Can't wait for next year!
Two of my favorite newsgroups. I created both of them, and it's nice to see how many people have joyously jumped in with images. Senator Exon, I'm sure, had some pictures from these groups in his famous "blue book". Ah, it's nice to be acknowledged, however indirectly.
The best erotica store I know of.
One of the best fetish magazines in the world, in my opinion. This kind of stuff really gets my motor running. How about you?
Now an online newspaper for the SF leather community. Yay!
Good net resource if you liked my FAQ list.
Speaking of Senator Exon, check this action out!
Created 8 May 1995, last updated 12 August 2001, and copyright by Johnson Grey .